When I was a kid I used to read those Choose Your Own Adventure books. You know, the ones that let you make a choice at the end of each section where you skip ahead to a certain page. If you make the right choices you get to keep on going straight up to the end. If you make the wrong choices the book might end a little sooner, your character permanently snuffed out. Or at least snuffed out until you start over again and make different choices. Many childcare providers use "choices" with kids. It is a great way to help them learn, simply saying something like "are you making a good choice here?". I have tried to embrace this in my own home too. Life is not always black or white. All of us have a chance every day to make our choices, to choose our path of which the outcome may or may not be desirable. But right or wrong, the choice was ours. When it came to the books, when it was time to make a choice, I, well....I cheated....